Tuesday, December 7, 2010

The MBA


As an MBA student with 2/3rd of it done, I should be good at well, managing. Managing people, managing product launches, managing corporate finances, managing pricing issues... yup, they teach all that and more at B-School.

But what about managing yourself? That's one part that seems to get more and more difficult to manage. This is no surprise. Our lives get increasingly complex. The responsibilities we take up, the knowledge we acquire, the personalities we encounter... even the number of friends we have on Facebook keeps increasing as we grow.

Is this self-imposed complexity in our lives out-pacing our ability to manage it? Gandhi had once said, "Be the change you want to see in the world". I would add that that we manage ourselves the way we aspire to manage the world.

Thursday, December 2, 2010

The Flexibility of Happyness


Loved hearing Daniel Gilbert's talk on why we are such poor predictors of what makes us happy. However, the good news is that we can change what predicts our happiness. Daniel calls it the Synthetic Happiness... one where we can be happy on things we are not supposed to be happy about! Which leads me to think, don't we all do well in jobs that we are truly passionate about? And don't you need to be happy about the job to be passionate about it? Thus if passion can be synthesized in our minds, then we can come to love any job out there.

To borrow from someone's famous words, Ask not for a job you will be passionate about. Ask what passion can you bring into the job you've got!


Sunday, October 31, 2010

Connecting the dots


Come mid-Fall quarter and you see 2 things at Kellogg. There’s the wonderful fall of the leaves as they go from green to red to yellow and eventually glide their way to the ground beneath. And you see another kind of Fall, the one that involves 1st year students! You see them move from the glowing color of triumph and a yearning to learn about every business case out there to one that is more sullen, unshaved, barely awake and just skimming through the headlines of only the most mandatory of cases. Having been there and done that, I often get asked what are the shortcuts to reading these cases. Are those supplementary readings worth it? If I’m going to have a career in Finance, does it make sense to spend my time pouring over books on Social graphs and Personality Types?

I hear you. You see, more often than not, these cases are about some business that perhaps was an interesting problem a few decades ago. And more often than not, its about an industry that is likely obsolete or has been shipped overseas. So at a cursory level, and definitely by only skimming through the summaries of these cases, I always felt that this was a waste of time.

But I think the 2nd year for an MBA is for a reason. Strangely enough, after a year of cases and an internship, one can, to paraphrase Steve Jobs, “see and connect the dots”. You begin to realize that the case on some Gillette razor that added another blade was never really about whether adding another blade made a better business case. Far from it! It really was about the lessons you can draw from it; timeless lessons that can be applied in very different settings. Marketing yourself on just a few lines (Facebook status message), creating a need in consumers for something they were doing without (iPad), the psychology of consumers towards deals (Groupon), etc have something to draw from this age-old case. And therein lies my point. It’s not about the cases. It’s about the dots that you can draw from there to issues that abound today.

This reminds me of Moksh. He’s 22 months now and in that phase where he’s still blabbering baby talk but does use some words every now and then that we understand. What’s surprising is that even he, in his own little way, connects words he picks up from different sources. Whenever Megha is having coffee, she reminds him that its is not for his consumption. In his own toddler-like way, he calls Megha as "Menga" and Coffee as "Koshi". We had some guests the other day and opened some beer. When we told Moksh that it was not for him, he pointed to the beer and exclaimed... "Menga Koshi!" :) . Through the little cases of his life, my little boy was also connecting the dots!

So, yes, my MBA 1st year friends, please read as many cases as you can. But don’t just stop there. Go ahead and connect the dots. For as any child who has done the puzzles on connecting the dots will know, the more dots you can have to draw from, the faster you can converge on the complete picture!

God Speed!

Sunday, September 12, 2010

The New Lifestyle


Today was the first of the many Sundays to come when I will be leaving my Megha and Moksh in Waukesha for attending school in Evanston. We plan to meet every Thursday evening to Sunday evening. It will be sort of like a Consultant’s lifestyle – the classic 3 nights, 4 day away from family.

I have mixed feelings about it. On the one hand, I am looking forward to my 2nd year of MBA. The 1st year and a summer internship helps put things in perspective. You realize (or at least you think you do) about what you want to do with your life after MBA, what you lack and what courses and skills you plan to work on to get you to what you think you want to do eventually. In any case, it is definitely something that you look forward to… the kind of excitement that every kid has on their first day in a new grade in school. Those feelings… no matter how old you get, will never change!
But at the same time, there is that lingering concern. How will we, the MMm’s cope with the new long distance relationship? How would Moksh take to this new schedule? These days he cries and refuses to sleep if he does not see me sleeping next to him. In the day care, which we started last week, he apparently cries for his ‘Annu’ the moment he realizes that we are not around. And Megha’s starting a job. Actually two jobs… one involves building a mobile X-Ray system, another a toddler! How will she manage? What if the demands of one outweigh the other?

There are questions that you can get answers to. And then there are those that pertain to human relationships. These are the hardest of all… left best for time to tell!

Sunday, February 28, 2010

The lil' master



Getting him to wear swim diapers: 15 mins.
Minding him while he swims: 30 mins.
Getting him out of the water: 30 mins.
Enjoying a glass of wine with Megha while he sleeps after a tiring swim... timeless!

There are moments when Time stands still. For everything else...there's my son!